September
30, 2012
Happy 18th Birthday
Kendal!!!!!
So, this morning
Mom and I were congratulating each other on the momentous achievement of being
the parents of three ADULT children!
Sometimes we wondered if we were ever going to make it to this moment
without first running out of parental gas!
Well, we made it and we could not be happier to be in a position where
all of our children entered into adulthood without problems, issues, arrests or
illegitimate children, (oops, maybe not this one). Oh, well, nobody’s perfect.
Anyway, Mom and I
wanted to comment on your journey to this pivotal moment in your life and how
proud we are of the young woman that you’ve become, (minus the bad looks and
attitude that you regularly display to us).
From adorable bald baby and toddler, to a wall kicking, dead playing,
Mexican dancing little girl, you have always made us laugh out loud and, at
times, had us questioning our sanity for having more than two children!...Not
really. J….and Bingo
was his name O!!!!
From there we
began our club softball odyssey where we learned what going broke on a singular
sporting activity was about. While we
sacrificed our money, our weekends and our summer vacations to the softball
Gods, we found that we got paid back much more than we spent in terms of your
growth as an incredible young girl and adolescent. You learned about being part of a team;
overcoming adversity; silencing the naysayers; practicing followership and
leadership; adding to your already sizable bank of self-esteem; and, spending
more time with your Mom and Dad than any other girl those ages would ever have
wanted to. Although softball was an
absolute pain in the ass at times, it was a springboard to you becoming the
confidant, mature, and dedicated young woman that you are today. For us, the thousands of dollars that we
spent from the time you were nine until present day, (high school ball
included), was an investment that will continue to pay returns for the rest of
our lives and yours.
You, Kendal, are a
wonderfully unique young woman. While we
realize that many parents delude themselves by believing that about their
otherwise dullard children, you truly are a diamond in the rough. You blend
uncommon attributes together to create a personality and style all your
own. Humor, sarcasm, intelligence,
self-esteem, beauty, strength of character, moral courage, maturity, exacting
standards, and a devotion to family and self that is second to none make up the
Kendal Grace Walther that we have all come to love and admire. However, since we are not deluded parents
ourselves, your uniqueness can also sometimes be referred to as just plain
weird. From your own words and language
to the sheer volume of ridiculous hand shake routines, to the untold number of
strange facial expressions, to the insanity that is your dating life, your
“uniqueness” often borders on the absurd!
We kid, we kid. J
What a great 18
years it has been for us watching you become who you are today: A sister; a leader; a friend; a
granddaughter; an athlete; a trend setter; our daughter. We love you.
Happy Birthday!
Love,
Mom and Dad